When you are interested in my work or hold this book in your hands, you certainly want to know one thing: What sets her apart from others? A very legitimate question. People have often already gone a long way to find healing, to evolve themselves, or simply to age well. When people summarize their thoughts about me, my work or this book, they say that it is the missing element that brings everything together. Most of us have understood some things, misunderstood others, tried some things, let go of many things, and done many things very well. But many of us know and feel that something essential is missing despite all our endeavors.